Written from the point of view of an invisibly disabled person, but applicable to passing in many contexts, this captures some of the complex ambivalence of passing.
too many people's political ideals boil down to "what gets me more?" and change as their situation changes.
Yeah, who was it that said "if you're not a liberal when you're young, you have no heart, and if you're not a conservative when you're old, you have no head?"... seems to be the way many people seem to go.
I guess for me, part of it comes from upbringing - growing up in a family where all four of my grandparents fled Communist oppression isn't exactly an environment where left-wing thinking was encouraged. But it was more than that too, since I am more conservative than my parents. I've always been an individualist, and a firm believer in making one's own way in the world. I believe in only helping people willing to help themselves (the "give a man a fish, he eats for a day, teach a man to fish and he eats for the rest of his life" principle), and that "you make your own luck" and that people are their own worst enemies when it comes to success or the lack of it. I believe people artificially limit themselves, because people are capable of so many wonderous achievements, even if it seems like they have to overcome insurmountable odds (be those societal constructs, bodily constraints, etc.) to do it. Society, meanwhile, has encouraged these limits, getting people to think of themselves as weak, ineffectual and incapable, and thus needing Big Government/Big Business/Big Labour to take care of them - when all that does is concentrate power in the hands of those wanting to use it to their own manipulative ends.
My definition of "people" is pretty simple - the species of "homo sapiens". Whales and dolphins don't count :)
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Yeah, who was it that said "if you're not a liberal when you're young, you have no heart, and if you're not a conservative when you're old, you have no head?"... seems to be the way many people seem to go.
I guess for me, part of it comes from upbringing - growing up in a family where all four of my grandparents fled Communist oppression isn't exactly an environment where left-wing thinking was encouraged. But it was more than that too, since I am more conservative than my parents. I've always been an individualist, and a firm believer in making one's own way in the world. I believe in only helping people willing to help themselves (the "give a man a fish, he eats for a day, teach a man to fish and he eats for the rest of his life" principle), and that "you make your own luck" and that people are their own worst enemies when it comes to success or the lack of it. I believe people artificially limit themselves, because people are capable of so many wonderous achievements, even if it seems like they have to overcome insurmountable odds (be those societal constructs, bodily constraints, etc.) to do it. Society, meanwhile, has encouraged these limits, getting people to think of themselves as weak, ineffectual and incapable, and thus needing Big Government/Big Business/Big Labour to take care of them - when all that does is concentrate power in the hands of those wanting to use it to their own manipulative ends.
My definition of "people" is pretty simple - the species of "homo sapiens". Whales and dolphins don't count :)