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ironphoenix) wrote2009-06-08 08:29 pm
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Current issue
I've been reluctant to post on this subject for a while, because my position isn't a popular one, I fear. Recent events, however, have made it harder to stay silent, so here goes. If you don't stop reading here, I ask that you go all the way to the end.
I believe abortion is wrong. I believe it is a killing of a helpless human being, with all that entails. In cases where if the child doesn't die then the mother will, I can support it, but not otherwise.
That said, I believe a lot of other things, too.
I believe that safe, effective contraception and thorough, realistic sexual education should be universally available. I believe that sexuality, and current reality being what it is, women's sexuality in particular, should not be stigmatized. I believe that child care should be available and affordable. I believe that staying at home to look after children should not be a "CLM." I believe that victims of rape should be supported and treated with dignity and respect, not further victimized. I believe that in law and in practice, women should have free access to safe abortions. I believe that women who choose to have abortions should not be stigmatized either, and should have access to support and counselling services. I believe that we as a society need these things. I believe that the consequences of not having these things are contributing or would contribute to a lot of suffering and oppression. I hope that we, as societies, can overcome the systemic and structural factors which lead women to consider having their children aborted. I believe that the best ways to do this are by providing the support I described, not by imposing restrictions on vulnerable women at the time of their need.
That beling my fundamental position, let me now write a few things about the recent murder of Dr. Tiller, a doctor who specialized in late-term abortions, apparently motivated by his practice.
I believe that killing this person was wrong and unjustified. I believe it was an intrinsically wrong act of itself, and more. I understand the position that could be taken, that killing someone who would themselves kill many others is the lesser of two evils, and I reject it. I believe that it's a false saving, and one which merely contributes to the violence and oppression that encourage women to seek out abortions. I believe that "preemptive" acts or punitive vigilanteism undermine the social relationships of trust and mutuality that build lasting solutions to systemic problems. Let me say this again clearly and unequivocally: I repudiate this killing.
In closing, I ask that you not quote me out of context. I've written short sentences here, but they're part of a whole. It would be easy to misrepresent me by taking bits of this and leaving the rest behind; please don't.
I believe abortion is wrong. I believe it is a killing of a helpless human being, with all that entails. In cases where if the child doesn't die then the mother will, I can support it, but not otherwise.
That said, I believe a lot of other things, too.
I believe that safe, effective contraception and thorough, realistic sexual education should be universally available. I believe that sexuality, and current reality being what it is, women's sexuality in particular, should not be stigmatized. I believe that child care should be available and affordable. I believe that staying at home to look after children should not be a "CLM." I believe that victims of rape should be supported and treated with dignity and respect, not further victimized. I believe that in law and in practice, women should have free access to safe abortions. I believe that women who choose to have abortions should not be stigmatized either, and should have access to support and counselling services. I believe that we as a society need these things. I believe that the consequences of not having these things are contributing or would contribute to a lot of suffering and oppression. I hope that we, as societies, can overcome the systemic and structural factors which lead women to consider having their children aborted. I believe that the best ways to do this are by providing the support I described, not by imposing restrictions on vulnerable women at the time of their need.
That beling my fundamental position, let me now write a few things about the recent murder of Dr. Tiller, a doctor who specialized in late-term abortions, apparently motivated by his practice.
I believe that killing this person was wrong and unjustified. I believe it was an intrinsically wrong act of itself, and more. I understand the position that could be taken, that killing someone who would themselves kill many others is the lesser of two evils, and I reject it. I believe that it's a false saving, and one which merely contributes to the violence and oppression that encourage women to seek out abortions. I believe that "preemptive" acts or punitive vigilanteism undermine the social relationships of trust and mutuality that build lasting solutions to systemic problems. Let me say this again clearly and unequivocally: I repudiate this killing.
In closing, I ask that you not quote me out of context. I've written short sentences here, but they're part of a whole. It would be easy to misrepresent me by taking bits of this and leaving the rest behind; please don't.
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I would guess that most of the pro-choice people have similarly nuanced opinions -- that abortion is unfortunate (at best), not something they want to have happen, but that the choice of forbidding it is far worse. While, the other side, the "pro-life" people, seem to have less nuanced opinions, being more absolutist about it. But, when arguing against an absolutist position, it is hard to take a nuanced stance, and least in public debate.
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Perhaps it's that the most vocal pro-life folks are the absolutist ones, and the circles you move in tend more towards the pro-choice, so you know the moderates on that side of the table?
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"I believe abortion is wrong." ... "I believe that in law and in practice, women should have free access to safe abortions."
I think of that combination as the classic pro-choice statement.
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It leads me to wonder, though, how you feel about hormonal birth control that allows fertilization to happen, but prevents implantation. Or the "morning after" pill.
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I try to avoid reading the really inflamatory stuff, anywhere. It lets me feel better about humans as a whole.
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It is a very unclear and fraught choice, either way.
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The general case, though, is much harder, because I think there are very real limits on how much morality should be legislated.
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I don't know why your opinion would be unpopular. You have a belief, a strong one, but you also do not want to legislate your opinion on those that wouldn't share it. I think your position is a perfectly sensible one.
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See reply to
Thanks for your encouragement!
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From what I've read Dr. Tiller was doing his best to save the lives of the mothers, cases where the baby was either hideously malformed or would kill the mother before or during birth, or both. So, to my mind, if you know you can't save the baby, but you can save the mother, you save the mother. At least that's one out of two still alive and healthy.
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I think people on both ends of the polarized spectrum are part of "the problem".
I didn't actually know that that was what Dr. Tiller's practice was about; I'm happy that that's how he saw it.
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That being said, I could never have one myself. But expect everyone to think and feel the way I do about it? Not so much.
I applaud you for posting this.
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Thank you for getting this out there.
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As for the position being unpopular, see my reply to
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The most important aspect of sex education I believe should be self-esteem. To teach people that they don't need to have sex to fit in, or to keep a partner, or because it is expected on X date, or whatever else. Kids are also starting into sexual adventures way too young these days (and not just "these days" I guess, I thought the same thing when I was in high school and my peers were having sex and I was like "WTF? Already?").
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I agree that self-esteem is critical; I have no idea how to teach it if the parents and social circle are undermining it, though!
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Good points, I just think the solution is a bit more difficult then what you propose.
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I don't agree with you on everything, but as a society we should be able to hear and listen to all sides of an argument.
I think it a shame that political discourse is often reduced to sound bits and policies often have all the nuances removed.
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And I agree.
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This statement is not, in any way, consistent with the rest of your position.
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If abortion is killing a helpless human being, then the rest of your opinion, where you hold that it should be legal, that it should not be punished, that it should carry no stigma? Is monstrous.
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#1: Why does the allegedly-fully-human blastocyst *not* have a right to control it's own body?
#2: Why do *you* have the right to refuse to give *me* bone marrow or a kidney?
(and assuming that "we have no way of knowing" is the same as "we can reasonably assume" is a nightmare when you start discussing human reproduction. For the record)
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When I said "no way of knowing" I meant that the question is almost teleological in nature. You can't produce an answer through scientific reasoning, because it's not a scientific question.
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There's a good side discussion to be had on what constitutes a scientific question... but perhaps that belongs elsewhere.
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The answer in this case seems to be that there is a conflict of rights that can be in opposition,
If you accept that a microscopic clump of undifferentiated cells is a human being with all the rights of a human being, then yes, you have rights in conflict.
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No, but the 1 year old has no say if a surgery is to be performed. It is entirely up to the parents and the state, and to some degree the medical staff.
If you accept that a microscopic clump of undifferentiated cells is a human being with all the rights of a human being, then yes, you have rights in conflict.
Which was my point.
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And now we're right back at the start of the discussion, where Mike said that abortion was the killing of a helpless human being, and I pointed out that if that's true, the rest of his position is inconsistent to the point of incoherency.
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He's seeming to take the position that making it illegal—or at least stigmatizing—for women to control their bodies by having abortions is more abhorrent for a number of reasons than the killing of a late term foetus.
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Abhorrence, to me, has little to do with feeling good about something, and a lot to do with (probable) consequences.
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#2 is tricky. I believe that there is a difference between what's morally right and what's legally enforceable. Giving bone marrow or a kidney is morally right, but it can be argued (and usually is, implicitly) that it should not be legally enforceable, because the negative consequences of diluting the right of sovereignty of the body outweigh the positive consequences of saving lives by such involuntary "donations". I can imagine a society that might decide otherwise, and in fact it could make a very good premise for a science fiction story.
Your last statement is a bit loose. I believe that human identity begins at fertilization, at which time the genotype is set. I think it's not an ironclad argument, but to say that it's an unreasonable assumption would be hard to justify.
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You need to define "human identity" before we can continue, here.
(While we're at it: What's your opinion on IVF and HeLa? Is HeLa fully human with all human rights? It's got a MUCH stronger case for being a separate, individual organism, given that, unlike a blastocyst, it *can* survive nonparasitically. And they've got the exact same amount of functional brain matter!)
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His method is hardly less legitimate than yours.
Define "legitimate" for me, will you?
(And, if you look at the thread, I haven't expressed a definition or claimed a superiority of method. I've simply been pointing out inconsistencies and contradictions.)
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The cancer cells originally taken from Henrietta Lacks. You're suggesting for some reason that cancer cells are able to be kept alive under specific laboratory conditions are more viable to be called a person than an unimplanted embryo, in an attempt to discredit
Define "legitimate" for me, will you?
In this context? "Non-arbitrary" pretty much sums it up.
(And, if you look at the thread, I haven't expressed a definition or claimed a superiority of method. I've simply been pointing out inconsistencies and contradictions.)
You've presented a series of leading questions meant to lead someone to a specific view. You might just be a dick and want to have people believe things that you don't believe in just for fun, but I'm discounting that right now.
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in an attempt to discredit ironphoenix's religious views by suggesting they are ridiculous.
I have no need to suggest that his religious views are ridiculous. In this case, at least, it doesn't matter *where* he gets the premises - my argument is that his premises don't match his conclusions.
In this context? "Non-arbitrary" pretty much sums it up.
Fair enough. I tend to add "internally and externally consistent" to my personal definition of legitimacy - which is why I brought up the question in the first place.
You've presented a series of leading questions meant to lead someone to a specific view.
I wouldn't say I have - not exactly. While "how is X different from Y?" carries the obvious implication that I *don't* see a difference, it doesn't lead to an inevitable conclusion. After all, you might have an answer to the question that I just don't see.
I'm pointing out things I think are inconsistent within the framework of the discussion and asking how they can be reconciled. And yes, my expectation is that if you can't reconcile an inconsistency, you re-examine the premises that led you to it, because *that's how rational thinking works*. But the fact that I ask the question doesn't mean there's no answer to it. It's just something that I think really should be examined.
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Still, this kind of reinforces the slippery-slope argument for defining humanity where I do: if a child on day n is not a person, what magically happens on day n+1 that makes it one? One has to pick some state change as defining, and leaving the womb is no more justifiable than any other, especially given questions like, as
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What, if anything, then morally differentiates a person from a dog, or a germ, or a rock?
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I really don't see how you can have a "first cause" when it comes to morality. The best you can aim for is consistency, and even then I don't know if that's always desirable.
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"First cause," meaning an answer to the question, "why?" to which "why" need not be asked again? I'm guessing most parents want one of those! Dogma posits one; mystical experience grants one, but it's nontransferable except indirectly (see "dogma"). In either case, but especially the latter, relating that to practical matters is a tricky matter of interpretation and discernment.
I think consistency is something to pursue with caution: inconsistencies signal things that need work, but often need not be resolved immediately.
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I don't know of a way to get to a provably right answer either, mind you.
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I'm of the opinion that's what everyone else does, they just come up with elaborate justifications for taking that position. At least the ones that aren't going by "this is what this authority figure tells me is a person".
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In a certain sense, where I want to get is the recognition that everything is sacred and inextricably connected. That's a whole other discussion again, though!
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That's not what I'm getting, mostly. You're saying there are inconsistencies, but I don't hear you being specific about what they are and why you consider them inconsistent.
The trouble with this kind of argument is that you're taking no firm position of your own, contenting yourself instead with challenging mine. "Formlessness" is a good defense, but it makes little forward progress towards any goal.
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If I stop trying to make my point obliquely, I start here:
A) You say that abortion is killing a helpless human being with all that entails.
B) You go on to say that this should be legal, there should be no stigma, there should be no punishment, and you'd *like* it to stop but you feel that it *should* not currently be stopped.
These two things do not go together.
EITHER:
1) You DON'T actually think abortion is the killing of a helpless human being with all that entails, because you think killing helpless non-fetal human beings should be treated differently
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2) You DO actually think abortion is the killing of a helpless human being with all that entails, and by extension you think killing a helpless human being - shooting a sleeping adult or smothering an infant, for example - is something that should be minimised and you should be sad about it but you shouldn't punish someone for doing it and you shouldn't make it illegal.
I happen to be pretty damn certain that 2 isn't true.
Meaning, you can't possibly simultaneously hold both position A AND position B. If you really held A, you could not possibly hold B without also feeling that OTHER killings of helpless human beings were acceptable, and you don't.
Eliminate "with all that entails" from statement A and you're getting a lot closer to internal consistency. As long as that clause is there, though?
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In discussing B, I do not want it to be stopped by law or by stigmatization. I believe there are other ways to at the very least greatly reduce its incidence. I also qualified my original statement by "in law and in practice." For a religious person, this is a critical difference, where it likely isn't for an atheist/non-spiritualist one. A pretty widespread religious tenet is that morality carries consequences independent of human law or social censure.
In law, 1 is pragmatically hard to avoid without bringing down the consequences I described in my original post. I guess one thing that troubles me is that this too has a slippery slope on it, towards infants, children, mentally incompetent people... that's a road I wouldn't want to go down.
As for 2, I think we do it all the f'ing time, just collectively, by omission, and at a distance. How many people die because they work in places with terrible safety practices, no health care, and wages insufficient to provide for proper housing and nutrition? How many die because they're denied the medical care they need because they can't pay, or because the wait is too long and their condition becomes irrecoverable in the interim? How many people starve because it was economically practical to grow cash crops instead of food there, and then discover how expensive it was to have food shipped in?
Death is far from the greatest evil we can inflict on another, I believe. To not care (and express that caring in word and action) about another is the root of moral failure. One of the great challenges to modern Christianity, at least for me, is that we're now aware of so much of the world that there's just too much to care about for any human. Reconciling that contradiction is the work I'm more interested in.
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This is verging on uncivil; please avoid ad hominem argumentation, even by implication (in this case, that
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HeLa requires a finer distinction, and the question is still too new to me for me to have constructed a position I'll stand solidly behind. My gut feel is "not human," but that's not well-substantiated for me right now.
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I have been doing a lot of thinking on this because I've lately had to take Outaouais busses more often (due to being late for the 27/40), and passing by the Bank abortion clinic silent protesters, especially during their lent vigil with the slogan "praying for an end to abortion". I constantly wonder, what would I say to these people to figure out exactly what their position is, and if their arguments are internally-sound or if they're just dogmatic?
And in these internal dialogues (always treacherous since I'm only talking with my self-image of what I think they actually stand for), checking questions and answers, I rarely go anywhere, finding some of my own inaccuracies or at least realising some positions are based on dogmas of my own; but a few things did come out clear.
I believe in also wishing an end to abortion clinics, as in, a proliferation of places due to rising demand for such a painful and difficult procedure (and, sadly, due to an image of the procedure as birth control, with which I also disagree), through pro-active action starting mainly with knowledge, disseminated through the community of what it is and what it is not; of why it happens, and try to prevent that. If strength of purpose for that task is achieved through personal and communal prayer, that's fine. (I'm hoping the people there aren't using prayer of the "hoping God does something about it" sort, which does nothing. Actions speak much louder than words on a placard.) But I also realistically believe that abortions will still be needed, due to the sheer number of people around, and as such, should be done by medical professionals in safe, supportive environments, same as other medical procedures. Not illegal and back-alley "doctors" ending up doing more harm than good. Also, plenty of information beforehand, so the choice is made in clear conscience on both sides. (And the choice never goes away, is never forgotten. This also I know.)
And yes, it must also mean stop propagating the myths and fables always circulating in teen circles; you can't have an "adult" come in and tell them they're wrong, they'll distrust the source; and if a teen already knows it's erroneous and tries to correct them, then they go "well you're the only one who thinks so, so you can't be right". This is a strong force of misinformation on how sex happens, how even pregnancy can or can't occur. I've found a 30 year old, otherwise intelligent woman thinking that "pulling out" was effective contraception, in the last month! These old myths have been around for over a century, rarely changing in some cases, the older teens telling the younger ones and then disappearing from the environment (school, usually) so new, corrective information from the same source can't happen later on. Sex education in school is barely making a dent, it seems. On this, I'm stumped.
The vigilantism of and by absolutist or zealots is also wrong. It usually is flagrantly hypocritical to boot, but yelling loudly is viewed by some as an effective persuasion method, and thus are mobs formed...
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I agree that information is a good thing, and the more of us there are being realistic and honest with it, the less people will be susceptible to the argument that, as you say, well you're the only one who thinks so, so you can't be right".
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It all boils down for me to being able to think that the possibility of being wrong exists, and that truth can withstand criticism; if the critical analysis is flawed, truth will stand; if it isn't, then maybe that wasn't the truth. But to do so without feeling like a "loser" in an argument, or in a social context? Rare trait. Is that trait physionomical or cultural? Yeah, huge other debate, but they're all linked. (Similarly with the function of prayer, which I was using as an example of debate fodder and not as my actual debate argument.)
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I'm certainly open to argument on where the line is, and why; in the absence of strong evidence to the contrary, I tend to draw it as early as I think is reasonable (i.e., fertilization).
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Were I a doctor, I doubt I could justify performing most abortions to myself--but then, I chose not to be a doctor.
I generally agree with the idea that there's little to be gained by harming women who are having or have had abortions.