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ironphoenix) wrote2008-05-23 05:18 pm
ironphoenix) wrote2008-05-23 05:18 pm
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PhD? What PhD?
I have officially terminated my PhD program. My supervisor and I discussed what remained to be done, and having come to the conclusion that it's somewhere between 1000 and 2000 hours, and that this would require me to spend some 10 to 20 hours per week for the next year to two years in order to complete it in a reasonable time, it's not going to happen.
How do I feel about it? A bit sad, but a lot relieved. That thing has been stressing me out quite a bit, and now it's gone. It closes a few doors: I'll probably never teach at a university quite the way I originally had in mind, for example. However, I am pretty well-established in a successful career, and I like managing, so I'm not too badly hurt. As much as anything, it's a blow to my ego, but one which I can weather.
What now? Well, I've decided to take a few months to rest and let the facts settle in, rather than leaping onto my next project. I'll start thinking seriously about my next major undertaking in late July, after my vacation.
How do I feel about it? A bit sad, but a lot relieved. That thing has been stressing me out quite a bit, and now it's gone. It closes a few doors: I'll probably never teach at a university quite the way I originally had in mind, for example. However, I am pretty well-established in a successful career, and I like managing, so I'm not too badly hurt. As much as anything, it's a blow to my ego, but one which I can weather.
What now? Well, I've decided to take a few months to rest and let the facts settle in, rather than leaping onto my next project. I'll start thinking seriously about my next major undertaking in late July, after my vacation.
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It was a wise professor who told me that little saying, about a decade ago.
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I gave up at the Master's, if only because I couldn't think of a project that would be interesting to me for more than a couple years. My current job allows me to thrive on change so I don't regret that decision at all. As you say though... it's all about what the process brings you, and finishing up my M. got me an ideal job and life, but that doesn't happen for everyone. Some have to start a PhD to get where they want to go, even if the initial destination doesn't become the final destination. Often an opportunity arises that is far better than originally planned... rather like 'As one door closes another one opens' but in this case it is more like 'As you walk towards your intended door another one opens and happens to have a much sweeter prize'.
I am glad that you made a decision, and that you are happy with it. I had so much trouble going to school and working... essentially at the end I didn't get my contract renewed with the company because I needed the time off (this coincided nicely with them not being able to afford me for a term). For what it is worth I think you made the best decision, as you are so happy with your job and you are good at it and why change something that works? I know, you could potentially be happier with a teaching job but I don't know... I would guess that you would come out about even on that (be just as happy either way) so why mess with something that currently works?
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I agree that this is working well now; if I change my mind, I could even go back eventually, this time with my eyes open.